#WisdomTablets (12)

Overcoming the Challenges in Your Relationship
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The last time I checked, every relationship was
characterized by one challenge or the other. This
simply implies that challenges are natural; hence,
are bound to set into any form of relationship or
anything whatsoever that comprises a creature,
particularly a human.

For the fact that we are mortal, or imperfect,
challenges remain inevitable in our everyday life.
It suffices to say that they aren't meant to be seen
as plights; rather, consequential recipes required
to strengthen any ongoing cause, be it friendship,
marriage, learning, business, or what have you. In
this case, we are more concerned about those challenges
attributed to the shortcomings of the partners involved.

The best way partners, be it friends or spouses, can
tackle their challenges is by embracing understanding.
Understanding is the act of acknowledging your partner's
abilities, flaws and so on, with a view to realizing how to
adjust your lifestyle or temperament towards suiting that
of his or hers.

You can only achieve a tangible understanding if you both
cough up reasonable time for each other. Creating adequate
time and space for the relationship would definitely yield
absolute communication. Proper communication invariably
leads to the anticipated understanding. It's noteworthy that
understanding ushers in intimacy. It is only intimacy that
can result to undiluted love, which everyone yearns for.
Hence, INTIMACY supersedes LOVE; read my lips!

So, rather than being cantankerous, make possible effort
on how to inculcate those qualities or idiosyncrasies you
desire into your partner's lifestyle. Believe me, it really
pays to assist in bringing out the best in your friend or
spouse, as the case may be. #ThinkAboutIt 

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