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Sunday, 23 July 2017

ShortStory I Rough Past



ROUGH PAST
        The entire arena was so moody and tranquil not unlike a graveyard that even the domestic birds within felt it. Though the 43-year-old Andrew was used to a quiet and lonely atmosphere, this very one that emerged unannounced was so intense for his liking.
        He just returned from Blazing Hospital in Ojota, Lagos State, Nigeria where he lost his third wife to the monstrous death. The deceased, Chidinma who tied the connubial knot with him barely a year back, gave up the ghost while in labour; she had pushed for the umpteenth time in the labour room as instructed by the nurses, yet all efforts proved abortive, perhaps the unborn baby had vowed never to behold the planet, Earth. It was an unspeakable disaster, to assert the least.
        As the poor Andrew lay in his magnificent bed, facing the ceiling, engulfed by thoughtful feelings, he abruptly recalled his second wife, Christy. He equally lost her to the cold hand of death – three years back – barely eight months after they got married. She was dastardly crushed by a fully loaded trailer along a federal highway in the city of Lagos when the driver derailed from his lane having lost his brake. Intriguingly, Christy also passed on in pregnancy; she was to put to bed in about six weeks time based on the result of the scan diagnosis she underwent.
        As he remembered with deep sorrow how the news of Christy’s sudden departure came to his hearing on that fateful day, he fiercely rose from the bed, gushed out fathomless tears uncontrollably and eventually sat on the room’s tiled floor, felt so rejected. What else could he think of as he furiously sat on the floor than to recall the beautiful face of Adanna, his beloved first wife? Adanna died in his hand six years back right in their house lounge when he was 37.
        “Oh, Adanna!” he roared at the top of his voice, still sitting on the floor.
        Adanna who was heavily pregnant of triplets, had fell ill a few days back owing to cold weather. The wicked pneumonia penetrated her sensitive hormones that she was left with no choice than to wave farewell to mother Earth despite the medication she was placed on by her gynaecologist. She passed away while lying on her hubby’s laps as they were seated in the parlour in that forsaken evening.
         Prior to her exit, she had complained of a sharp abdominal pain but when her hubby (Andrew) made move to take her to a near-by clinic, she declined, claiming that it wasn’t as serious as he presumed. Her claim was not unconnected with the fact that she had a strong phobia for injections, thus invariably avoided any incident that could make her caught the sight of a niddle let alone experiencing its pains.
        The helpless thought of all these ordeals kept pounding in his perplexed mind as he sat hopelessly on the tiled floor. The thorny hands of death had refused to free him, thus making the ongoing bondage seemed endless. First, it was Adanna followed by Christy, and now Chidinma. Who was next? That could be the most apt question to be tendered at that juncture. Notwithstanding, life must ride on.
        “God…!” Andrew exclaimed, stood up calmly. “Why me..?” he added hesitantly, went to his bed again and sat on it.
         It was almost night, at about 7:45pm to be precise. In the absence of Chidinma who left the world some hours ago, he was the only one who lived in the two-bedroom apartment equally situated in Ojota, thus he had all chances of embarking on a suicidal mission; and it appeared that was the only option he could think of at the moment as he got his eyes fixed towards the PVC ceiling hung on the house.
        Andrew was undoubtedly a well-to-do young man who worked with a multinational broadcasting firm as a marketing officer. Eight years back when he secured the promising job at 35 after several years of job-hunting, life became so nice and enticing to his person not until two years later when he thought it wise to tie the knot having successfully found Adanna who could be best described as an angel considering both her outward and inward idiosyncrasies; surely, little did he realize that he was on his way to a cursed land.
        How would he communicate to his parents, relatives, friends, and of course colleagues, that he was about to bury the third woman that willingly came into his life just twelve months ago, having entombed two in the past? Based on his feelings, the best thing that could happen to him at this point was nothing but death; he wished he could just lie in the bed and become lifeless rather than resorting to suicide, which had already occupied his thoughts.
       A few minutes later at about some seconds to eight O’clock, a knock was heard at his main entrance. He managed to walk to the metal door and let it open, never bothered to ascertain who was there.
       It was Dube, his childhood friend who equally resided in Lagos but in a different locality. He presumed he was the one at the door because he had earlier in the day called him on phone, asking him to endeavour to come to his place as soon as possible. When the invitee made effort to find out during the phone conversation what actually the problem was, Andrew declined.
        Prior to Dube’s arrival, all his neighbours who lived in the other neighbouring apartments that were built alongside his, had come to sympathize with his person on hearing the ugly news.
        Dube walked in majestically though preoccupied with fear of the unknown, and closed the door behind him.
        On sighting the guest, he only managed to offer him a handshake, and then gushed out tears again, indicating that all wasn’t at ease. He calmly walked to one of the single cushion chairs in the sitting room and confusedly sat down.
        Dube followed him but remained standing. “Andrew,” he called. “What is it?’
         There was no response.
          Dube stepped closer to him, and squatted right before him as he was seated. “Andrew, I said what is it?” he reiterated. “By the way, where is your wife?” He supplemented.
        “I lost her….!” He hinted noisily.
        “You did what..?” Dube roared, frantically stood up. “Did I hear you clearly?”
        Andrew nodded. “She died in labour.” He eventually cleared the air, sobbing.
        “Oh my Go…d; not again!” exclaimed Dube, stood still. “You mean, Chidinma is no more?”
         Andrew nodded again, took a deep breath and exhaled accordingly.
        Dube shook his head continuously, managed to sit on the other seat sited closely to Andrew’s, and abruptly became mute.
       To be continued, please!

FDN Nwaozor 
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Friday, 21 July 2017

#WisdomTablets (12)

Overcoming the Challenges in Your Relationship
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The last time I checked, every relationship was
characterized by one challenge or the other. This
simply implies that challenges are natural; hence,
are bound to set into any form of relationship or
anything whatsoever that comprises a creature,
particularly a human.

For the fact that we are mortal, or imperfect,
challenges remain inevitable in our everyday life.
It suffices to say that they aren't meant to be seen
as plights; rather, consequential recipes required
to strengthen any ongoing cause, be it friendship,
marriage, learning, business, or what have you. In
this case, we are more concerned about those challenges
attributed to the shortcomings of the partners involved.

The best way partners, be it friends or spouses, can
tackle their challenges is by embracing understanding.
Understanding is the act of acknowledging your partner's
abilities, flaws and so on, with a view to realizing how to
adjust your lifestyle or temperament towards suiting that
of his or hers.

You can only achieve a tangible understanding if you both
cough up reasonable time for each other. Creating adequate
time and space for the relationship would definitely yield
absolute communication. Proper communication invariably
leads to the anticipated understanding. It's noteworthy that
understanding ushers in intimacy. It is only intimacy that
can result to undiluted love, which everyone yearns for.
Hence, INTIMACY supersedes LOVE; read my lips!

So, rather than being cantankerous, make possible effort
on how to inculcate those qualities or idiosyncrasies you
desire into your partner's lifestyle. Believe me, it really
pays to assist in bringing out the best in your friend or
spouse, as the case may be. #ThinkAboutIt 

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Tuesday, 18 July 2017

Opinion II Today July 18 is, Nelson Mandela Int'l Day


SUING FOR PEACE AND JUSTICE AS THE 2017 NELSON MANDELA INTERNATIONAL DAY IS MARKED ON TUESDAY JULY 18
         
 
      Nelson Mandela

July 18 each year, the world over celebrates the Nelson Mandela International day, or simply the ‘Mandela Day’, in honour of the late icon Dr. Nelson Madiba Mandela who happened to be the first democratically elected President of South-Africa. The day, which is being celebrated annually and internationally, is an event organized by the United Nations Department of Public Information (UNDPI).
         
It was endorsed by the United Nations (UN) General Assembly in November 2009 to mark Mandela’s birthday, thereby creating awareness on the need for everyone to support selfless service to humanity which helps to uplift peace and justice and to free mankind from all sorts of bondages. The day isn’t a public holiday, but specifically a day to honour the legacy of Nelson Mandela and his values, through volunteering and community services. The remarkable event was first celebrated by the UN in 2010. However, other groups began celebrating Mandela Day on 18th July 2009.
        
The Mandela Day is a global call to action that celebrates the idea that each individual, regardless of status or age, possesses the power to transform the world as well as the ability to make an impact on any society he/she finds him/herself. This implies that we are expected to strive relentlessly towards bringing a positive change wherever we find ourselves.  
         
In the world over, just as everyone constantly and persistently prays to have peace, so do we pray for justice in all our endeavours. In the same vein, whosoever that is faced with any kind of bondage, either spiritual or physical, shall never have rest of mind until he/she regains freedom. This is to say that, every man is consistently striving towards actualizing unalloyed peace, justice, or freedom, as the case may be.
         
The above assertion signifies that no man wishes to encounter any form of bitterness in any field of endeavour, on a daily basis. This is the reason the global community through the effort of the United Nations (UN), came up with the ongoing International Nelson Mandela Day to ensure that everyone considers peace as a priority towards societal and human-capital development.
         
It’s not anymore news that the late Nelson Mandela, while on earth, gave sixty-seven (67) years of his life to the struggle for human rights and social justice. As a founding member of the then ruling democratic party in South Africa known as the African National Congress (ANC), Mandela was arrested in 1962 and sentenced to life imprisonment. He spent twenty-seven (27) years in prison but remained unstoppable in leading strategic revolution against apartheid government.
          
Interestingly, when Nelson Mandela was elected the President of South Africa in 1994, he did not call for vengeance or retribution against the whites; rather, he led a sensitive reconciliation movement that amazed all the African as well as International politicians. Furthermore, he campaigned for peace, unity and love among South Africans irrespective of race or tribe. Because of the astonishing character of the late icon, the UN General Assembly in 2009 proclaimed the annual International Nelson Mandela Day.
         
So, as the world over commemorates the Nelson Mandela International Day, there’s need for collective support and solidarity by all and sundry from all walks of life irrespective of race, age, background or status. In view of this, the international community is urging us today to devote at least sixty-seven (67) minutes of our time to helping others. By devoting 67 minutes of our time – one minute for every year of Nelson Mandela’s public service, people can make a small gesture of solidarity with humanity and a step toward a global moment for good, which we all anticipate.
          
Hence, take action, inspire change, and mobilize the human race to do more in order to build a peaceful, sustainable and equitable world. This is the best tribute we can pay to an extraordinary man who embodied the highest values of humanity while on earth and ensured that we saw ourselves as one indivisible body.
          
Reportedly, UN staff around the world have made a difference through a variety of activities in the past, such as supplies to school children, preparing meals for the elderly ones, helping out in an orphanage, cleaning-up parks, delivering computer literacy seminars and workshops, and what have you. Also, in New York of the United States of America (USA) for instance, UN staff volunteered their time on 17 and 18 July 2013 to help rebuild homes that were destroyed by Hurricane Sandy.
         
We can as well contribute our own quota to public service by individually or collectively indulging in any of the following humanitarian activities, but not limited to:
v Make a new friend; get to know someone from a different cultural background because it is only through mutual understanding we can rid our communities of intolerance and xenophobia.
v Read for someone who can’t; visit a local home for the orphans and the less-privileged.
v Help someone get a job; prepare a CV for them and help them acquire the required interview skills.
v Take a little time to have a chat with the terminally ill people and bring some sunshine into their respective lives.
v Get tested for HIV as well as other Sexually Transmitted Diseases, and encourage your partner, colleagues and friends to do so too.
v Donate blood, wheelchair, or cash to someone in need.
v Lastly, but not the least, buy a few blankets, or grab the ones you no longer use in your home and give them to someone in need.
         
Frankly, we all are expected to unanimously support this remarkable life-touching event globally recognized as Nelson Mandela International Day, because the life and times of the celebrity in question, Dr. Nelson Madiba Mandela were no doubt worthy of emulation. Think about it!

Comrade FDN Nwaozor
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