#WisdomTablets (6)

Don't Frequent a Friend's House
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Yes, he's your friend, no doubt about it, but do
not frequent his home/lodge. Constant visit to
a friend's house invariably leads to affront. If
a friend sees your face so often, gradually the
respect he/she has for your person begins to
decline regardless of how beautiful the face in
question is.

Try to create a little distance, not minding how
much you cherish the friendship. Such an attitude
requires only courage, because it's really hurtful
to stay away from someone you truly care about,
even if the distance is so infinitesimal. Believe it
or not, when a certain company or companionship
is always available, it becomes so boring.

Same is equally applicable to phone conversation.
If a fellow sees or receives your phone call often
times, your number would be detested by him/her
unknowingly to them. In such case, sometimes, they
may decide to ignore the call. The funniest part is
that the said negligence is displayed unintentionally.
They wouldn't overlook your calls with the purpose
of hurting you, but just that the calls have abruptly
become so common to them.

I'm not soliciting for a distance to be created in a
friendship or any form of relationship, but the truth
remains that sometimes a little distance is consequential.
Hence, sustain the intimacy, but endeavour to summon
RESPECT by not frequenting that home that seems
irresistible to you . #ThinkAboutIt

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